My First Post-YAY!!

Hello everyone!

I created this blog to talk about my experience as a black girl in a interracial relationship with an Indian man. I think my relationship is rare because there are not alot of black girls in relationships with men of Indian decent. There are so many stereotypes revolving our relationship. To name a few:

*Indian men only want Indian want Indian women to marry. They will always leave you for their own
*Their family will never accept you
*You will have to convert to hinduism

With my relationship none of these are true. My bf is not Hindu nor do I have to convert. His family loves me and dont care that I am black.

My mother is another case. She HATES him. She is "christian" but doesnt like Indian people because of a few who did her wrong in the past. She doesnt like my dad because he hurt her in the past. He's Trinidadian and she thinks all Trinidadians are liars.

The back history between my bf and mother is long. I am my mothers only child and she has always been over protective. When she met my bf I think she became angry because she thought he was going to replace her. Long story short she threw me out lasy year may when I came home at 2 am from a fashion show. She took my stuff out and told me to call him to come get me so I did. Long story short she hates him because she thinks he got involved in "family affairs". Now I'm sure you are saying the same thing everyone else was when they heard it; she got him involved because she threw me out and told me to call him to come get me. Well she doesnt seem to see it that way.

Now she hates him. Before the whole incident he tried with her. He went out of his way to be nice, help her with grocery shopping, drive her places yet she still hates him. It bothers me alot but I am slowly trying hard to not care what she thinks. She doesnt care how her actions make me feel. I am not a child yet I understand that she is manipulative. And this will be my documenting of her manipulations, my frustrations, and this silly thing called life. So sometimes it will be happy, sometimes mad and sometimes sad. Either way hang on because you are in for a wildly entertaining ride.

Love you all!!!

Kisses ;)